Well, so I will say at first, when I first started, like, listening to different I joining mentorships and podcasts and whatever, it was during COVID. So my kids would walk by me, and I'd be at the table, like, listening to something, and my kids would be like, mom's getting motivated again. You know? So the they'd be like, you're so motivated. Are you motivated enough? Well, then they saw that I started, like, actually, like, jamming, like, you know? But by the way, I did work, like, seven days a week. Now my kids were a little older, so they were in college and high school.
But, now I think that they they k. So number one, this is not an easy business by any doing being the actual operator is not easy. Right? It's a full full contact sport, whatever they call it. It's like it's a thing. But I have three sons, so they are now 24, 22, and 19. And they have seen me build this business and be basically a developer, which is really cool. I did Tulane because two of my boys were at Tulane, so they got to actually see it in you know, we would buy these houses that were falling apart and completely redo them, and it's been really, really fun. So they were they were able to go along for that ride.
But, my middle son now is actually at NYU getting his master's in real estate development. So and they both they both live in New York City, but he's getting his master's in real estate development. So they're definitely you know, they've got I think that that at least he has the bug to get into this business. But I think that, you know, as moms, I think it's for me personally, my mom was always work you know, always worked. She was a a very busy executive. I think that it's important for me. It's been important to model working hard to my for my kids. Now I stayed home for a really long time. I stayed home for fifteen years, but then got back into business after that.
So, yeah, I think, it's definitely, more you know, for some people that are doing this with little kids, it's a balancing act, obviously. You know, you probably need to have you know, you need to figure out when it is that you're going by, you know, construction sites or or when it is that you're going to events. Again, maybe it's time when your kids are smaller. Maybe you do more passive investing. And then if you really you know, if this or you do, like, the slow flip or whatever they call it where people are doing, like, one a year, which I've never I've never done, sadly. I dream about it sometimes. I do four very slow, Marcy. Yeah. I do four to five at a time, so that's what we're doing here.
But that's, again, that's because my kids are older. Right? So if you have little kids, you know, you'll you know, like, what your what your pacing is. But you definitely can you can definitely do this, you know, especially if you find, a great partner. And you don't have to have that partner for every project, by the way. You can have different partners for different projects, which is also something to remember. So and I would actually advise maybe not maybe as you get started, you know, try different people for different things.